It has just started to hit me, that no matter how hard I try, my boyfriend and my best friend are never going to get on fabulously well. They are ok with each other, which I appriciate, but they will never be the best of chums.
It used to really really upset me that they didn't get on. How was it possible that the two people I love most in the world cannot love each other? I used to hate bringing up either of them in the other ones company, incase it caused a snide comment, or another story about what that person has done wrong.
But recently, as I have started to realise they will never see eye to eye, I've also grown a new attitude towards the entire situation. BALLS TO THEM BOTH!
Tasha is my best friend, my other half, my bumcheek and there is nothing that Russell can do about it.
Russell is the most amazing boy I have ever met, and I really do hope I am with him for a very long time, and Tasha will just have to lump it.
Because at the end of the day I LOVE THEM BOTH MORE THAN LIFE ITSELF, and that's all that matters to me.
If the only thing they have in common is me, then I am HAPPY.
So this one's for you two.
I know you don't love each other.
But I don't care.
I know you don't love each other.
But I don't care.
I love you.
fab post and I agree, balls to them both!
ReplyDeleteI'm really lucky as my other half gets on with everyone xx
Thanks hun :) Thats the thing, he usually gets on with everyone like a house on fire! Typical that the one person he doesn't is the one I want him to get along with the most ha!
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I've had a similar issue in the past, where my bf and best friend literally HATED each other. It was incredibly awkward and safe to say I'm no longer with the guy and the girl is no longer my best friend.
ReplyDeleteI'm glad that your bf and bestie are at least civil with each other because it shows that despite their feelings towards each other, they both love you enough to put their differences aside. You're a lucky one :)
LauraElizabeth xo